By September, Nearly a Third of Americans Will Live in States With Legal Aid in Dying
Jules Netherland traveled from her home in the Bronx to the New York state Capitol in Albany several times in the past few years, hoping to persuade the legislature to pass a medical aid in dying bill, allowing terminally ill patients to end their lives with a lethal prescription.
She spoke at rallies. With other members of the advocacy organization Compassion & Choices, she visited legislators鈥 offices. In 2024, as the state Assembly was debating the aid in dying bill, she helped unfurl a banner in the chamber gallery that read, 鈥淪top the Suffering.鈥
Her activism was becoming difficult. Netherland, who is 59 and works for a nonprofit, was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2019. 鈥淚 did a full year of aggressive treatment,鈥 she said. 鈥淐hemotherapy. A mastectomy. Radiation treatment every weekday for five weeks. Six months of two oral medications.鈥
She recovered and felt well until the cancer returned a few years later. Although metastatic breast cancer is incurable, drugs are keeping her disease at bay for now. Netherland feels fortunate but also fatigued, and she contends with brain fog, gastrointestinal symptoms, and joint pain.
鈥淢y energy is really limited,鈥 she said.
As she emailed and called legislators, Netherland feared she might die before the aid in dying bill 鈥 first introduced in New York in 2016 鈥 could become law.
鈥楢 Breakthrough Moment鈥
On June 9, 2025, after the Assembly approved the bill, Netherland was in the state Senate chamber, watching the aye votes mount, and seeing it pass. an amended version in February; it is scheduled to take effect Aug. 5.
A similar law is in September in Illinois, which would become the (plus the District of Columbia) where medical aid in dying is legal.
鈥淎 breakthrough moment,鈥 said Kevin D铆az, president of Compassion & Choices, which has spearheaded the long campaign for such laws. After almost 30 years 鈥 Oregon鈥檚 law, the first in the country, was enacted in 1997 鈥 the addition of two populous states means that almost a third of Americans will live in one where medical aid in dying is legally available. 鈥淚t shows that there鈥檚 broad support for this model,鈥 D铆az said.
Polls consistently back that claim. A last spring found that almost two-thirds of respondents didn鈥檛 consider the practice 鈥渕orally wrong,鈥 either because they thought it was acceptable or not a moral issue. Support crossed many political and religious lines: A narrow majority of Republicans and 76% of Democrats both found 鈥減hysician-assisted death鈥 (also sometimes called 鈥減hysician-assisted suicide鈥) permissible; so did most Catholics, Jews, and nonevangelical white Protestants.
In New York, that 54% of respondents supported aid in dying, including majorities of men and women, of all age groups, and of city, suburban, and upstate residents. A plurality of Latinos supported it; Black respondents narrowly opposed it.
Passing these laws has grown somewhat easier, said Thaddeus Pope, a bioethicist and professor at Mitchell Hamline School of Law in St. Paul, Minnesota, who tracks such policies. 鈥淵ou can say, 鈥榃e have 10 years in California, 18 years in Washington, and 29 years in Oregon, and nothing bad has happened.鈥 It becomes more accepted.鈥
鈥榊ou Need A, B, and C鈥
Yet legalizing medical aid in dying, or MAID, has been and remains a long, contentious process. Catholic leadership and many disability organizations staunchly oppose it. (Pope Leo XIV personally not to sign the bill.)
The American Medical Association says that 鈥減hysician-assisted suicide is fundamentally incompatible with the physician鈥檚 role as healer鈥 and poses 鈥渟erious societal risks,鈥 although a number of state medical organizations have opted to remain neutral or, as in New York, to .
The Patients鈥 Rights Action Fund, through a sister organization, has lawsuits pending or on appeal in California, Delaware, and Colorado, arguing that aid in dying laws discriminate against people with disabilities by steering them toward physician-assisted suicide instead of treatment.
鈥淭his is a litigation strategy we鈥檝e developed to ultimately get to the Supreme Court,鈥 said Matt Valli猫re, the group鈥檚 executive director, who declined to say whether it would sue to block the Illinois and New York laws.
Even when aid in dying laws succeed, using them can prove challenging. In every state (except Montana, where it became legal through a court decision, so there is no statute governing eligibility), aid in dying is available only to people with incurable illnesses who are expected to die within six months.
It typically involves oral and written requests to two doctors, with mandated waiting periods between requests. Patients must have the mental capacity to make the decision, which disqualifies those with dementia, and they must ingest the medication without assistance. (An amendment Hochul insisted on adds a psychologist or psychiatrist to the process.)
All but two states require patients to be residents. Oregon and Vermont scrapped their residency requirements brought by Compassion & Choices. ( a .)
Moreover, any doctor, hospital, or healthcare system can legally decline to provide aid in dying, and religiously affiliated institutions often opt out. Those that participate can add their own requirements.
鈥淭he state can say 鈥榊ou need A, B, and C,鈥 and Columbia-Presbyterian can say, 鈥榃e also want D, E, and F,鈥欌 said Pope, the Minnesota bioethicist.
Hotly Debated, Seldom Used
Perhaps these restrictions, or a lack of public awareness, help explain why, despite the headlines and fervent debates, the number of people who actually use the law is tiny in every state 鈥 usually 1% or fewer of the deaths recorded annually. The support for giving patients this kind of autonomy at the end of life remains widespread, but the desire to personally exercise it apparently is not.
Still, after studies showed that many patients seeking MAID were dying , the trend has been to loosen restrictions. California cut its 15-day waiting period to 48 hours; New Mexico allows physician assistants and advanced-practice nurses to write prescriptions along with doctors.
鈥淢ost states have now amended their laws two or three times,鈥 Pope said. 鈥淲e have liberalized.鈥 Telehealth can also facilitate access to participating doctors.
Compassion & Choices is planning legal challenges to end residency requirements in additional states, D铆az said. It is also considering how to 鈥渕ake inroads in jurisdictions with a much different cultural and political environment,鈥 he added, mentioning Florida and other Southern states.
Medical aid in dying represents a shift in power, D铆az said. 鈥淭he person who has to bear the burden of the suffering should have the ability to decide when it鈥檚 enough,鈥 he added.
Anne Gurnett Bander, 72, a retired research scientist in Carmel, New York, cared for her husband for four years as ALS 鈥 the relentlessly disabling neurological disorder also known as Lou Gehrig鈥檚 disease 鈥 rendered him bedridden and dependent on feeding and breathing tubes. 鈥淏y the time he died, the only thing he could do was nod his head,鈥 she recalled.
So being diagnosed with ALS herself last year was 鈥渕y worst possible nightmare,鈥 Gurnett Bander said. She was planning to fly to Switzerland, where the nonprofit organization Dignitas provides medical aid in dying, when she learned about the New York bill and began speaking publicly in support of it, her voice faltering as her illness advanced.
Gurnett Bander and Netherland say they鈥檙e not certain they鈥檒l use lethal drugs to end their lives as their symptoms intensify. Not infrequently, patients complete the necessary steps, secure the prescribed medication, decide they don鈥檛 need it after all, and die of their diseases. But both women insist that the choice should be theirs.
鈥淚t can offer so much peace of mind,鈥 Netherland said. 鈥淚 thought, 鈥楶eople should have this option.鈥 Now, they will.鈥
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