The distraught wife paced the exam room, anxious for someone to come and tell her about her husband. She鈥檇 brought him to the emergency department that afternoon when he complained about chest discomfort.
Sophia Hayes, 27, a fourth-year medical student at the Oregon Health & Science University, entered with a quiet knock, took a seat and asked the wife to sit, too.
Softly and slowly, Hayes explained the unthinkable: The woman鈥檚 husband had had a heart attack. His heart stopped. The intensive care team spent 45 minutes trying to save him.
Then Hayes delivered the news dreaded by doctors and family members alike.
鈥淚鈥檓 so, so sorry,鈥 she said. 鈥淏ut he died.鈥
The drama, played out on a recent Friday afternoon, was a scene staffed by actors and recorded by cameras, part of a nerve-wracking exam for Hayes and 143 other would-be doctors. OHSU officials say they鈥檙e the first medical students in the U.S. required to pass a tough new test in compassionate communication.
By graduation this spring, Hayes and her colleagues must be able to show that, in addition to clinical skills, they know how to admit a medical mistake, deliver a death notice and communicate effectively about other emotionally and ethically fraught issues.
It鈥檚 a push started in the last two years by Dr. Susan Tolle, director of the OHSU Center for Ethics in Health Care, who wants to improve the way doctors talk to patients, especially in times of crisis.
Tolle has seen doctors who don鈥檛 make eye contact, those who spout medical jargon and still others who appear to lack basic compassion for patients and their families.
鈥淭hey鈥檒l stand in the doorway and say something like, 鈥榊ou need to call a funeral home,鈥欌 Tolle said.
Part of the problem is that, in the past, aspiring doctors were taught too little, too late about difficult communication and its nuances, said Tolle.
鈥淢y generation of faculty were not taught,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 had history-taking, but it was more about, 鈥楬ow long have you had chest pain?鈥 I did not have [instruction in] how to give bad news.鈥欌
At Tolle鈥檚 urging, the OHSU officials revamped the medical school curriculum to include new lessons in 鈥 and standards for 鈥 communication, ethics and professionalism woven through the coursework, said Dr. George Mejicano, the senior associate dean for education.
鈥淢ost of the emphasis has been on the simplest aspects of communication,鈥 he said. 鈥淭he whole idea here is, how do you tell someone they have a life-threatening or even a fatal illness? How do you tell someone, 鈥業鈥檝e actually made a mistake?鈥欌
OHSU isn鈥檛 the only center to focus on communication. All medical schools and residency programs in the U.S. are required to include specific instruction in communication skills to gain accreditation, according to Lisa Howley, senior director of strategic initiatives and partnerships for the Association of American Medical Colleges, or AAMC. Residents are required to prove competency in order to graduate from training and be eligible for board certification for individual practice. And there鈥檚 been a larger effort nationwide to help practicing doctors learn to talk to patients about dying.
But Dr. Mark Siegler, director of the , who closely follows communication issues, said he believes OHSU鈥檚 approach is new.
鈥淪o far as I know, there is no other school in the U.S. that has any such standard,鈥 said Siegler. 鈥淣o other program has both a teaching effort and an evaluation effort.鈥
Hayes, the OHSU medical student, said she and her fellow students were nervous before the recent exam. But the practice with 鈥渟tandardized patients鈥 鈥 actors trained to portray people undergoing medical care 鈥 was crucial to understanding the right way to talk to families in a real-world situation.
鈥淵ou realize you have this horrible information they don鈥檛 have yet,鈥 she said.

Tolle wants to improve the way doctors talk to patients, especially in times of crisis. (Jordan Sleeth/Courtesy of the Oregon Health & Science University)
Hayes did quite well and passed the test, Tolle said. So did most of the other OHSU medical students. But several 鈥 she wouldn鈥檛 say exactly how many 鈥 will need remedial coaching and testing before graduation.
Some of those students failed to introduce themselves properly or to find out what the family member had already been told, Tolle said. Instead, they bluntly announced they had bad news and quickly added that the patient was dead.
鈥淵ou watched the screen and it looked like you hit [the spouse] with a truck,鈥 Tolle said. 鈥淚t comes across as incredibly uncaring.鈥
In real life, such botched conversations can have far-reaching effects. Mary George-Whittle was just 24 when her father had emergency open-heart surgery in 1979. When the surgeon emerged from the operating room to face the family, his message was jarring.

Mary George-Whittle’s parents, Louie and Ella George, in the early 1970s. (Courtesy of Mary George-Whittle)
鈥淗e blurted out that Dad had died, that he had too little to work with, that Dad鈥檚 veins were like working with the veins of a turkey,鈥 recalled George-Whittle, now 63 and retired after a career as a chaplain in Oregon. 鈥淗e told us he had Dad鈥檚 blood all over him.鈥
Nearly 40 years later, she and her 11 siblings can still remember the shock.
鈥淭he impact that that still has is like PTSD,鈥 she said. 鈥淭he experience gets caught up in how poorly the news was given.鈥
This year鈥檚 test is a first step, Tolle said. It will be reviewed and refined for future classes. Students who need help will get it. At the same time, OHSU faculty will be offered sessions to help improve their communication skills so they can model what students are taught.
The long-term goal is to raise the bar across the profession, said Tolle, who鈥檚 had some practice shifting paradigms. She鈥檚 the co-creator of known as POLST, a document credited with revolutionizing end-of-life instructions across the U.S.
In the same way, Tolle said, the culture of communication among doctors can change, too, starting with the latest generation.
鈥淥ur biggest goal is not to do a kind of 鈥榞otcha鈥 thing for the current medical students,鈥 she said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 to find where the pieces are missing.鈥
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