A 12-year-old boy named Strazh hangs from the monkey bars, staring at the ground. The other kids in the park aren鈥檛 interested in him. And he鈥檚 not interested in them.
鈥淚 just like to play by myself,鈥 he says.
Strazh has autism. Today is a good day. But on most others, Strazh has meltdowns. Something frustrates him and he can鈥檛 control his emotions.
鈥淚 sometimes end up screaming,鈥 he says. 鈥淎nd I end up yelling and screaming.鈥
And hitting and banging things, throwing things, adds Strazh鈥檚 mom, Natalie Dunnege. As a single parent, she says she bears the brunt of it.
鈥淗e told me that I disgusted him,鈥 she says softly. 鈥淗e tells me he hates me.鈥
Dunnege puts all her spare money into therapy for Strazh. She says it helps a lot. But Dunnege herself is struggling, feeling depressed and overwhelmed. She decided to look for her own therapist.
鈥淥ne of the things that I鈥檝e really had to wrap my head around is that I can鈥檛 change him. I can only change how I handle the situation,鈥 she explains. 鈥淎nd not that I would want to change who he is. He鈥檚 a really good kid, but it鈥檚 a lot to handle, especially as a single parent.鈥
But when she logged onto her insurance website to find a therapist, she realized her copay for a mental health visit was going to be upwards of $75聽鈥斅爉ore than double her copay for other doctors鈥 appointments. Under a 2008聽federal mental health law, those copays are supposed to be the same.
鈥淭here鈥檚 no way,鈥 Dunnege says. 鈥淚t鈥檚 out of my budget right now.鈥
Dunnege lives in a one-bedroom apartment with her son and her father in San Francisco鈥檚 Haight district. Grandfather and grandson sleep in twin beds side by side. It鈥檚 an awkward walk past those beds to the only bathroom. Dunnege says $75 a week for therapy is impossible.
鈥淢y income, I just made lower middle income. Just by the skin of my teeth,鈥 she says. 鈥淪o I just have to hold off until I鈥檓 actually middle class.鈥

Natalie Dunnege and her son, Strazh, work on an art project at home. (Sheraz Sadiq/KQED)
More than 43 million Americans suffer from depression, anxiety and other mental health conditions, according to the most recent . But more than half the people who felt like they needed help last year, never got it.聽Even people who had insurance complained of barriers to care. Some said they still couldn鈥檛 afford it; some were embarrassed to ask for help. Others just couldn鈥檛 get through .
Recent health laws, the 2008 Mental Health Parity Act and the Affordable Care Act, were supposed to fix this. They require health plans to provide benefits for mental health conditions on par with physical health conditions. Under the law, insurance companies can鈥檛 charge higher copays or set up separate deductibles for mental health care compared to other medical or surgical care. They can鈥檛 limit hospital stays or require preauthorization for mental health treatment if the same limits are not applied to treatment for physical health conditions.
But advocates say insurance companies are still finding ways to keep people who need care from getting it. Some are still not complying with the law. And some have found subtle, technically legally, ways to limit treatment.
Problems With Mental Health聽Provider Directories
Natalie Dunnege encountered some of these barriers when she tried again to find a therapist. In the last year, she got a promotion at work and moved into a larger apartment. Her employer switched to a better health plan, too. Now she has Blue Shield coverage, and her copay for mental health appointments is only $20.
鈥淲hich I was really excited about,鈥 Dunnege says.
But when she looked for a therapist who took her insurance, she struck out.
鈥淚 contacted six or seven,鈥 she says.
Only three called her back.
鈥淥ne of them, they were completely booked,鈥 she says. 鈥淎nd then the other two just didn鈥檛 accept the insurance anymore.鈥
Zero hits out of seven. Had to be a bad draw, right?
To find out, we decided to conduct our own survey and called all the psychologists 鈥 100 in total 鈥斅爐hat were listed on the Blue Shield website for Natalie鈥檚 plan in San Francisco.
Here鈥檚 what happened:

(Lisa Pickoff-White/KQED)
The end result: 28 psychologists actually had appointments. And only eight of them had slots available outside regular work hours. Eight out of 100.
鈥淪orry, I wish you the best of luck,鈥 was a common refrain in therapists鈥 voicemail messages.
For Natalie Dunnege, after seven rejections, she gave up looking.
鈥淚t鈥檚 hard when you鈥檙e feeling sad and you feel like you can barely keep things together,鈥 she says. 鈥淚t just seemed like way too much at the time.鈥
Mental health advocates say this is exactly what insurance companies are hoping.
鈥淚t鈥檚 a way to control cost,鈥 says Keith Humphreys, a Stanford psychiatry professor who served as an advisor to Congress when it was developing the 2008 Mental Health Parity Act. He says while insurers are now required to keep an adequate number of clinicians listed in their directories, they still find ways to sidestep the rules.
鈥淵ou know the law doesn鈥檛 say you can鈥檛 put people on there who are dead, or you can鈥檛 put people on there who are not taking new patients,鈥 he says. 鈥淲hat that translates into, then, is people have to wait longer for care, which then cuts expenditures for the insurer and reduces access.鈥
California passed a law last year, , raising the standards for physician聽directories. Insurers will have to police their lists for providers who are booked or retired. But a lot of questions remain about how the law will be enforced, especially when it comes to mental health providers, who are largely self-employed, solo practitioners.
The insurance industry says it will be a challenge.
鈥淲hen you have networks as large as ours and you have as many enrollees as we have here in California, you鈥檙e not going to be able to just have everything accurate every single second of every single day,鈥 says Charles Bacchi, CEO of the California Association of Health Plans.
He said the industry is working to make it better.
鈥淏ut we also need to be realistic,鈥 he says. 鈥淲e don鈥檛 run a mental health provider鈥檚 office. They do. And how they handle people calling their offices is their job.鈥
In a statement, Blue Shield said it tries to make it easy for providers to update changes in their contact information and schedule.
鈥淲e understand that there are a number of issues that impact a provider鈥檚 availability to take new patients, such as administrative limitations and fluctuating numbers of patients based on their individual needs. When those instances arise, the provider is required to notify us so that patients have access to the most up-to-date information about who is available in their area.鈥
The industry also says it鈥檚 facing another challenge: a nationwide shortage of mental health providers, further exacerbated by the millions of people who signed up for insurance under the Affordable Care Act.
In California,聽there are 鈥渁round 4 to 5 million more people with coverage, just in the last two years,鈥 Bacchi says. 鈥淎nd that鈥檚 creating a strain for everybody, plans and mental health providers.鈥
This story is part of a partnership that includes , NPR and Kaiser Health News.